Differencies between a man who loves you and a man who is poisning your life

In a healthy relationship, being
protective is very important, but you don't want to cross the line into being possessive.

You can tell when your boyfriend or girlfriend is just being tolerant, and not being fully respectful.
You can show encouragement for someone without being overly controlling.

No one wants someone who is serious all the time. Yet, no one wants a clown either.

If he doesn't not put a smile on that face when ever two of you are alone ,he's using you