SEX WITH HER ON THE FIRST DATE DOES Not make her to be cheap

It might sound crazy to hear, but sometimes, sex on a first date does not make a lady cheap. Yes, some people are loose, men and women alike, but sex on the first date makes no one cheap. On women’s side, three strong factors can contribute in them having sex with any man on the first date;

• Either she loves you
• you paid for the sex or
• compensation: that is out of pity, probably you have spent alot on her, and then she feels like to have sex with you, in other to please your heart.

That you have sex with her on the first date, should not give you a reason to be degrade her or say stuff about how she lacks self control. It takes two to tangle, remember. You too do not have self control; otherwise, nothing would have happened.

Never think that it was because you took her for shopping, remember most women think that what every-man want is sex so giving it to you on the first date for free, just count yourself lucky.

I know that a lot of men here can relate to what I am saying, the fact still remain the same that there are still a good number of men who can never have sex with a woman on the first date. But this message is for that group of men, who will always want sex on the first date. Probably because you bought something worth of 3k for her, may be pizza or ice-cream, forgetting that there are men who spent million on the first date, but never ask of sex

Let’s take a look at case of Davido who bought a car worth of 30 million naira for her girlfriend Chioma yet he never brags about sex. Yet just ordinary ice-cream and sharwama, you are already disturbing a lady for sex and worst, when she eventually gives in, you will be the first to tag her cheap.

A wise man never tempts a woman with sex on the first date. Some woman are so emotional that whenever a man does something that makes them feel on top of the world , she will have no option than to give you whatever you ask her. Remember some of them will out of pity, may be because of how much you have spent on them willingly allows you to sleep with her. And this was the major reason why 70% of the men today thinks that all women are the same; that all you need was to tempt her with material things, and she will surely have no option than to give in to what you demand from her.

In conclusion, my fellow men I advice you never to use advantage of how much you spent on a lady to ask for sex. Some will stop calling her the very moment she said no, some will also lure her in their house drug her just to satisfy their sexual urge.

Before I end this article, I want to live you with this question, if someone demands  sex from your daughter on the first date, how will you see such man, if you eventually knows that it was because of something he bought for her, that made him to demand sex from  her?

Always give a second thought to any of your decision on a first date, because asking for sex might end the friendship from that day. A word is enough for the wise.

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